Labor Support is unconditional.
It is listening,
not judging, not telling her own story.
Labor Support is not offering advice.
It is offering a Kleenex, a touch, a hug, caring.
A doula will help you discover what you are feeling,
not to make the feelings go away.
A doula will help a woman identify her options,
not to tell her which options to choose.
A doula will discuss steps with a woman,
not taking those steps for her.
A doula will help a woman discover her own strength,
not to rescue her and leave her still vulnerable.
A doula will help a woman discover that she can help herself,
not take that responsibility for her.
A doula will help a woman learn to choose,
not to make it unnecessary for her to make difficult choices.
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